Ladies, the first time visiting your man's apartment can be stressful and overwhelming.
As you are processing his pad, there are some red flags to look out for too.
First thing-- a bare bed.
According to one interior designer, a mattress with no sheets is a bad sign because it means he isn't home a lot and not keeping up with the laundry, not to mention the hygiene implications.
On the flip-side, experts say a perfectly-made bed that would make the military proud could mean he is the kind of guy who knows the women he wants to go out with in a split-second when he walks into a bar.
So not much flexibility there.
If your man has weights in the bedroom, especially piled up in front of a full-length mirror, it may be a sign that he takes fitness too far.
It could also mean he is a little too into himself.
And what about if he is a slop?!
it's usually an instant dealbreaker for women.
Experts say a messy apartment is a sign of laziness, like he is waiting for someone to clean up after him.